Zeala's Blog

You know, I don't believe Jaden can do this, I mean we all know that he doesn't have that capability. Yes, he's good looking, optimistic to an extent, hardworking as we can see but doing this requires more than all these qualities. Take a good look at Jaden, remember all he did in school last year. Do you think he can do this? Jaden doesn't even know who he is and what he wants. He's confused but if you do believe he can do this like he said he can then go talk to him about it or let him just stick to what he knows how to do best. Wow! The person saying this about Jaden seems to know him very well or feels like he or she knows him very well. Always remember that nobody except God knows you better than you know yourself. Not even your parents or best friends. There is a particular type of power in us that is so capable of doing a lot of things that will ordinarily seem impossible to do. And that power is locked in the deepest part of our heart- Zeala's blog. Jade...

Wow! I'm affected by this topic- "After all observations", but there's just a little message that is attached to the whole story. I've always had a big dream of becoming a medical doctor, not just a medical doctor but one of the best female gynaecologists in the world and I've tried laying down some principles and sticking to them. School! School is just full of dust, sun and debit alert like most people say, including me. The tertiary aspect of the school is the toughest and the roughest. While I was in school, I realized a whole lot of things, mixed emotions- the fear, happiness, sadness and strives in me. It was then I confirmed that the race is not for the weak or faint. There were times when things were not just fine, times when I had to cry myself to sleep so I can have the strength to continue. Peer group pressure was at its minimum due to a standard that has already been set.  All the same, those times were terrific. At some point, I even lost interest...

A FRIEND After "Love", the word " friend" is the most commonly abused. Friendship! This word entails a lot but a lot of people don't just get it. Well, let's see how deep it is. Friendship has a great role to play in the life of every human. It is a ship that one must be on. It is said to be the state of being in a mutual affection with someone you have a bond with. Who is a friend? Do you have a friend or friends per se? Read on, let's find out. Growing up, I always heard people say that the best friend anyone can have is a mirror. I always wondered about this statement because I know that a mirror is an object so how can it portray the attributes of a best friend? Gradually I was able to discover the mystery behind the statement. Another statement that caught my fancy was "Your pillow is your partner" how? Well, I came to understand that these statements were generated out of the experience and came out to stand as a sort of comfort to some p...

Everyone has that one role model they aspire to be like. If not everyone, most people, especially children who haven't gone deep into life matters. When I was younger, even up till now, my role model remains Ben Carson, the renowned black neurosurgeon. Yeah….basically, he appears to be a role model to almost 65℅ of teenagers in the world and most adults too(without research, I'm just saying though🙄😌😂) and that's because he has a motivational life story to put out to the world. But then, have you thought of being a role model to yourself? Strange Right? Now take a look at the heading again and read a deeper meaning into it. How can you be a role model to yourself? Of course, the factor that makes you choose who your role model would be is mainly the motivation that comes with his/her success story. Naira Marley, though most people may see him as a negative influence on youths, still emerges as a role model to certain people. Why?. These people see him as a motivation to b...

 Pain is one inevitable thing in a person's life. It's part of the process one has to go through to either be an asset or a liability- Zeala's Blog.  How you can overcome pain, all depends on how it is handled.  It is extremely clear that every human has a purpose on earth but it is also important to know that the majority of humans, till they die, do not fulfil these purposes due to so many factors. In a nutshell, all these factors lead to pain.    But the question is “ are you going to let that pain bring out the best in you or bring the worst out of you?” You might find yourself in a very terrible situation where you feel like all hope is lost and you no longer see the reason for you to strive but remember that as long as there is life, there is hope. All you have to do is to pick yourself up, sit upright and tap into the deepest part of your heart and let it go. Let all the pain, frustration, anger, fear, temper go. Let them all go.  Letting...

At a very young age it seemed like I was already an adult who had to pass through certain challenges or probably all challenges in life to be shaped into the person I have to be that successful lady that people will look up to and listen to due to the experiences I've had and level of knowledge and creativity accompanied by it. I can remember vividly every single bit of tears that rolled down my cheeks due to the level of pain I felt; the pain of not having certain answers to questions that kept eating me up- “wasn't, I too young to pass through all I was going through already? ”who exactly did I offend?” and the most heart-breaking of all these questions was “I'm I really his biological daughter or was I adopted?.” Even if I was adopted, am I not human? Am I not worthy of love and human respect? Did I really have to be treated like this? Everything that was going on was eating me up and affecting me emotionally, socially, psychologically and academically. At that time in m...