TOP SECRETS TO BEING YOUR ROLE MODEL

Everyone has that one role model they aspire to be like. If not everyone, most people, especially children who haven't gone deep into life matters. When I was younger, even up till now, my role model remains Ben Carson, the renowned black neurosurgeon.

Yeah….basically, he appears to be a role model to almost 65℅ of teenagers in the world and most adults too(without research, I'm just saying though🙄😌😂) and that's because he has a motivational life story to put out to the world.

But then, have you thought of being a role model to yourself?

Strange Right?

Now take a look at the heading again and read a deeper meaning into it. How can you be a role model to yourself?

Of course, the factor that makes you choose who your role model would be is mainly the motivation that comes with his/her success story.

Naira Marley, though most people may see him as a negative influence on youths, still emerges as a role model to certain people. Why?. These people see him as a motivation to become what they want to be in years to come, whether you see it as negative or positive.

In all, it's left for you to decide if you want to have a negative or positive personality.

These top secrets would be your vehicle to drive you to have your aspired selfness.

Draft out your plans. 

There's this saying that goes, "if you fail to plan, you plan to fail". Thus to succeed in life, you need to make plans. Do not just think them up in your head, but the moment you get an idea, pen it down, no matter how dumb it may sound.

Plans are needed no matter what you want to do in the future. Be it what people see as the least profession or what people may call the top-notch ones.

If you want to succeed, get a notepad and write down your plans and if you don't, still do the same.

Put in the effort to make it a reality.

As much as you desire to succeed, if there's no effort put in, there'll be no success achieved- Zeala's Blog.

Having a plan and drafting it out is not enough for the success you desire to achieve. 

Most times it all seems like you are not making any effort due to the kind of result you get; you see yourself as a failure because you just can't get it right, but remember that a real failure is one who fails and refuses to try again. If you do something and it doesn't turn out the way it was supposed to, try another way. Don't stop trying.

If you want to be a successful person then push the button.

"The value of an idea lies in the using of it"- Thomas Edison.

And if your desired success is achieved, you'll certainly be proud of yourself because you know that all efforts were not wasted. Feeling good about yourself is the best feeling you can have and trust me, you'll always want to feel so good about yourself once you've felt it once. 

You'll use your experiences to teach others, people will certainly look up to you for advice and you'll, in turn, be getting better at what you're doing. You become a role model to people and to yourself too.

When you become a role model to yourself, you become your number one fan and will always want to support yourself in whatever you do, therefore attracting people who have similar dreams and are ready to support you. 

"If I were you, I'll want to be me"- Meghan Trainor( a line from the lyrics) has become one of my favourite quotes. 

You can boldly say this only when you've discovered your capability and capacity, drafted out your plans and put in the effort to make it a reality. This is not for the proud, but for those who have accepted who they are and all they've been through, understood it and decided to make a good result out of it.