MOTIVATION

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At a very young age it seemed like I was already an adult who had to pass through certain challenges or probably all challenges in life to be shaped into the person I have to be that successful lady that people will look up to and listen to due to the experiences I've had and level of knowledge and creativity accompanied by it.

I can remember vividly every single bit of tears that rolled down my cheeks due to the level of pain I felt; the pain of not having certain answers to questions that kept eating me up- “wasn't, I too young to pass through all I was going through already? ”who exactly did I offend?” and the most heart-breaking of all these questions was “I'm I really his biological daughter or was I adopted?.” Even if I was adopted, am I not human? Am I not worthy of love and human respect? Did I really have to be treated like this? Everything that was going on was eating me up and affecting me emotionally, socially, psychologically and academically. At that time in my life, the only thing, I could do was cry and hope that it could all end. A normal child at age five should only be bothered about food, clothes, friends, and doing well in school but in my case, it was just the opposite. And I grew up with that pain, fear, guilt for nothing and anger that was put in me when I was very young. I grew up having terrible childhood memories, one that I would never wish anyone or any child to have. I grew up without the love, care and affection I was supposed to get as a daughter in the very least. Hearing other children talk about all they had and enjoyed at home would make me break down in tears because my own home was a disaster.
“Why can't I just be happy like other children?”,” Must my own things be different?”- lots of questions kept flooding my mind, but I couldn't answer them, not until now.

I've come to realize that I passed through every single thing I passed through so that I can be a source of hope to children, youths, and even adults that have been in scary, depressing, and overwhelming situations. There are two ways people learn- by experience(whether good or bad)and from others experience and my experience has placed me in a better place to understand life. And this blog is going to help you navigate your way to happiness and success because it's all about life-everything that can make living worth. The lesson is "No matter the pain, the hurt, learn from those experiences and do more to be happier." 


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